Take A Seat is something I started because I wanted connection to feel simple again. Life moves quickly, and people often pass each other without speaking. You can go through a whole day without feeling like anyone has really seen you, and I know how isolating that can be. That’s part of why I decided to do something small but meaningful. I sit on a bench with a sign that says Take A Seat and offer people a moment to pause if they want to.
I’ve spoken openly about my mental health before, including sharing part of my story on a podcast. Talking about it wasn’t easy, but it mattered. It reminded me how powerful it can be when people feel able to open up and realise they’re not alone. Take A Seat grew from that same idea. I’m not there to fix anyone or offer advice. I’m simply creating an opportunity for someone to sit, breathe, talk or feel seen for a moment.
I’m not running a group or a movement. It’s just me, showing up with the sign in different places around Wakefield. Some days people sit and talk. Other days, they simply pass by. Both are fine. The point is that the invitation is there, offering a quiet moment, a chance to connect and a reminder that kindness doesn’t need an event or a programme.
Take A Seat is my way of being present in my community and creating opportunities for genuine human connection. One person, one bench, one sign. If you see me out and about in Wakefield with the sign, you’re welcome to come over and take a seat. Whether it’s a conversation, a quiet moment or simply a hello, even the smallest interaction can make a difference.
If you’d like to get in touch, you can reach me by email or through the Facebook page. Whether you want to say hello, share a thought, ask a question, or talk about something you heard when I shared part of my mental health story on a podcast, I’m open to hearing from you. Take A Seat is about connection, and that doesn’t only happen on a bench. Sometimes it starts with a simple message from someone who felt something in the idea. I reply when I can, and I appreciate anyone who takes a moment to reach out.